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Friday, September 16, 2005

Random Fetish Attack

Being a PSO is definitely different from a vanilla, non sex work job. One of the weirder aspects of being a phone sex girl is the random fetish attack.

On a nightly basis, whether I'm taking calls or just keeping up with the other phone sex operators, I'm exposed to every weird fetish, every unusual sexual practice or subversive kink. My job is to understand those fetishes and the mindset behind them, to understand why they turn my callers on and to get my mind right there with theirs so I know exactly how to turn them on and use their fetishes as my secret weapon. Sure, sometimes the guys are pretty up-front about wanting a straight fetish scenario, and I love that level of comfort, but if they're just hinting at it, and you know exactly what they're getting at and then give it to them, when you hear that sharp intake of breath when you raise your voice or whimper into the dildo or mention the height of your heels... it's beautiful, and magical, and it twists something low inside of me in ways I really, really like.

I love being right there with them, in that moment, understanding their turn-ons from their perspectives.

There's just one problem: Understanding their fetishes from their perspective can lead to acquiring those fetishes.

The easiest ones to acquire aren't the straight fetishes, they're the little kinks and roleplay scenarios. Sure, I liked the Catholic schoolgirl thing (after recovering from, well, being a Catholic schoolgirl), especially the schoolgirl bent over the knee for a spanking thing, but I didn't think I'd like age play, or Daddy's Little Girl, or a lot of other common fantasies along those lines. I always thought gender-bending was sexy, but never thought I'd get into forced feminization the way I did. Then I tried them, and understood them, and liked how I reacted to them. Now they're right up there in my list of turn-ons.

Next, you start to internalize the serious fetishes and the paraphilias... especially the common ones, like foot fetishes. Shiny cherry-red nail polish on pretty bare feet... how could you not want to touch them, smell them, beg her to rub her feet all over your skin? I see so much T & A when I'm online or on campus anymore that it's not what I notice, or what catches my eye. I love a good pair of breasts more than I really want to admit here but lately... it's legs. Legs and black stockings and high, glossy black heels. Mmm. They're just so feminine and sexy, without being directly sexual. Whenever I see a woman with the right pair of legs, showing them off, with a nice pair of shoes showing off her sexy feet I just want to lick them. So I can understand all those guys and girls out there who feel the same way.

Let me tell you, I always liked pretty girls dressed up but the leg, stocking, and shoe thing is less than a month old and it's already to the point where looking at my own black leather heels gets me wet. The foot fetish sympathy is probably 6 months old. I've learned to do all kinds of things with my toes since then, like... type. (And give amazing foot jobs. I'll admit it!)

I'm kind of scared as to what I'll pick up next. Having my sexual tastes shifting so often and so quickly is fun, but so confusing to my fuckbuddies.

So who wants to be next to warp my libido?

6 Comments:

  • At 3:29 PM, Blogger Chibithulhu said…

    Chibithulhu prays to Azathoth and his soul and will, Nyarlathotep that you might, some day, develop a tentacle fetish, as Chibithulhu has many, many tentacles, and so few humans seem capable of appreciating them.

     
  • At 10:16 AM, Anonymous Graydancer said…

    Rope. You should try rope next, I think.

    My wife and I have been listening to your interview with Sam Sugar on podnography--and as she's also a former catholic schoolgirl submissive, she's enjoying it a lot.

    You sounded great, and I look forward to reading your blog. Take a listen to Rope Weekly or Poly Weekly, by the way (graydancer.libsyn.com)--I think you'd enjoy them.

     
  • At 11:23 PM, Blogger Halima said…

    I've noticed that the longer I'm in sex work, the weirder things have to be for me to call it a fetish.

     
  • At 10:09 AM, Anonymous Ms. Kitka said…

    AHA! Now I understand Sam Sugar's comment "call me anytime"...

    I think paediphilia and incestual fantasies are nasty, but I'm oddly attracted to the schoolgirl fantasy and hentai. I'm not sure if that makes me a hypocrite...

    Anyways, nice site... I listen to Podnography too, but I've only listened to #6 & #7, I guess I'll have to backtrack to find your interview... ;)

     
  • At 11:28 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Give me a call hottie 414-526-8899

     
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